Dale's soulmate:
- A smile that lights my neurons
- Listens
- Enjoys my humor and ideas
- Loves Dale
- Says You love me spontaneously
- Lovely voice
- Flowing conversation for hours
- Comfortable silence in stretches
- Harmony through any loss of flow
- Criticism comes absent of judgment
- Hangs out with my friends
- Loves my family
- Wants me
- Does not need or depend on me
- Love sharpens in our absence
- Doesn't care to directly control or change me
- Cherishes us
- Openness
- Travels/adventures/long walks/lays on the grass
- Attends to Your own well-being
- Indulges in moderation
- Gets dirty and sweaty
- Breaks rules
- Plays with the kid in me
- Strong/powerful in femininity
- Fun/connecting/meaningful/enthusiastic/sexy sex
- Holds me
- Catches me off guard
- Inspires me
- Strives to help others
- Has faith in the golden rule and in goodness of others
- Believes in evolution
- The relationship evolves
- Inspired by something beyond Yourself
- Loves Yourself regardless of/despite insecurities
- Introspective (maybe meditates or keeps a journal)
- Fascination with nature and life
- Down to Earth and up in its clouds
- Endearing craziness
- Smiles and laughs
- Patient/forgiving/thankful
- Listen listen listen listen listen
- Listen through
- Truth
- Consistent in my speech and love
- Random acts of kindness
- Keep doing stuff
- Never be lazy toward You
- Meditate single-pointedly to Your smile/eyes/body/voice/beat/breath/presence/essence
- Daydream about You
- Randomly decide to go a day with only kissing
- hold You
- Feel You in my heart and veins
- Find new ways to say I love You
- Appreciate/savor when You say You loves me
- Write poetry to You
- Find new things I love about You
- Write a good thing about You every night
- Love You the next morning
- Cook for You, breakfast in bed
- Be here for You
- Give You space
- Be together while apart
- Respect/value Your competence/autonomy
- Neither seek outside help nor accept others' advice (exceptions are very rare)
- Unlock Your cage
- At the very least don't lock You up into categories
- Catch all my judgment and absolve it
- Assume You aren't judging me
- Proactively find my patterns that don't work
- My money is Your money
- Your pleasure is mine
- Enjoy the things You like
- Get to know Your friends
- Do work in the same room (if possible)
- Massage and dance lessons
- Facilitate Your self-actualization/enlightenment
- Be willing to sacrifice things I value for You
- Expand on this list as I get to know You
- Follow through
As I write this, there are millions of You living out there. Know that I am attracting You.
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